I find it weird and oh so human that we seem to have these specific times in the year that we permit ourselves to go so deeply into memories and melancholy. Why do I spend so much of my Christmas time going through various memories—not just of Christmases past but of other moments? Why not other times of the year? (This could be because I also have the combination with my birthday, too.)
I slightly newer tradition with us (in the past 8 years or so) has been to light a remembrance candle for people we are missing during this time of year. Why does candle light comfort me? It is the same feeling I get from watching a river or the ocean, a calming reverence.
|For Paul, Grandpa Michael, Grammie. We miss you.|
Getting older and watching my children grow up, some of those remembrances are of them as children versus my childhood.
I remember Michael at age 7, so excited for Santa Claus that he hopped into bed with us and was literally shaking with excitement. I stayed up with him until 3 a.m., trying to keep him from going downstairs to see what Santa had already left him.
This year, he was up late again, mostly from excitement again...partially being older and not wanting it to begin/end. The same but different.
Willow is still at the age where there is wonder and song, excitement and imagination. She drew a wonderful picture for Santa and left it with the eggnog, cookies and carrots (for the deer).
I started this post yesterday, Christmas Eve. It is now Christmas Morning and I am officially a year older. Pies are cooling, hot cocoa has been served, electronic devices all around...and finally put down for a bit.
Still a bit reflective and missing the people who are not here in my life right now. Missing extended family far and near...but also I feel warm and thankful.
Being the main Santa here, my stocking was especially bare this year. I am the gift giver...not especially the gift receiver. But today...today I am happy that we are all happy and healthy. That this year of challenges have been brought to very happy conclusions. I am thankful.